Thanks for the kudos GGB. You are right, a lot of this is about me "plowing" through the first and second level defenses and being confident in who I am. In the past I had "packaged" myself as a man who didn't know what he wanted and didn't care enough to be steadfast in his life goals. I was inadvertently training her to disrepect me because I didn't respect myself. A perfect example of what blackfoot used to call "mirroring." Give your W a model of how you want your R to be and she can run with it, good or bad. I'm just running with the good now. I like to sit and stare at her now while I think about having sex with her. Really gets her unnerved. Works a lot better than sitting there complaining about her being on the computer too much. LOL
Still got A LOT to work on, the enmeshed ILs, her being "icked out" by the thought of oral sex ... hey, maybe I'll sit there and stare at her while thinking about going down on her. That ought to really send her reeling about, especially if I can make it obvious exactly what I'm thinking about. Hmmm ...
Speaking of kudos, I couldn't have made it to where I am without my friends, one of which I got to meet IRL recently, and let me tell you he is the real deal. Thanks and nice to meet you blackfoot. Looking forward to a lifelong friendship. Manly hugs and all ... very innocent friendly manly hugs ... yes, cause I'm not like that you know, despite what some strangers might think ... LOL. I'll stop before the inside jokes get too far out.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
