But plese see Sandi2's post on NDDT's thread that I 'stole' earlier. It surely fits your sitch - esp this latest bit - as well.
This was good thanks, W is talking to me again , I was out of town last night and she was home when I got back, I had txt her to let her know when I would be home so she had the chance to escape but she stayed and had a coffee. She is an emotional wreck though , I can tell . Everythings still about her at this stage though. I am just going to stand back a bit for my own sanity . Still be friendly and helpful when she asks but other than that leave her to herself for a while.
