Waltzing again -one decision at a time!

[NNP1965]

Hi Matilda, thanks for the heads up about your new thread. I like the title.

I agree about not having too many changes right now. Not having to move quickly will take the pressure off of you for finding a new job quickly and possibly settleing on something that won't really work for you.

Your H needs to be the one who has to make the decisions about where to live and how to finance this D, he is the one who wants it. You are entitled to what is fair, not what he thinks is fair for him.