I wonder if one of those positive nudges could be your in laws mentioning that you are loving? I know my H heard a rumour that I did not respect his job from an in law. That helped him decide to leave. He told me it was reported to him that I do not respect him. I wonder if the opposite would be true for us? What if there was a rumour that we were still in love with our spouses? Would that be good or pathetic?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."