If you really mean it just tell her you'll respect her wishes and tell her you'll be there for her.
what else can you do?
This is the best advice. She does not trust you, but I am sorry, she sounds like she still cares. Someone who does not give a hoot would not write like that. It is like a plea for attention. What is that about? Just respond that you are glad that she came into your life. That will put the focus on the original love from your past. Put yourself out there with no ego and say you will always be there for her. Do not pursue her. DBing takes a lot of patience. I do not want to give you false hope but I have said all those things to my H and now I am the one DBing! I still wish my H would leave me alone and go away from the kids and me so that I can heal. I want my old H back but I have no idea where he went. She may be going through that confusion too.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
