Didn't make it to MC, had this talk tonight. H looked shocked...but said he'd step it up, didn't realize any of this. I basically just told him what I want in a partner, said at present he's not delivering on some of it, and that I want more. All in all it went well...we'll see how it all goes.

BTW, I also expressed how important it was to me that he speak up if I ever do something that bothers/hurts/offends him instead of holding on to it. I told him I want an open, honest marriage where we respect each other enough to speak and hear the truth, a marriage full of passion, fun, and teamwork where nothing was off the table for discussion. He looked happy when I said that, and there was no weirdness tonight.

Now the ball's in his court. Here's hoping....

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!