My friends,
I've heard some interesting talk on this post about "compatability".
Check this out:
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/

I've read/own a few books of his. Really cool stuff. Starts to go down the psychological path, but not to far. He's another "Solutions" oriented guy.

His stuff (first stuff I read), plus DB and Remedy, and Venus/Mars, and Harleys stuff make a heck of a combination. Deadly.

I posted this over on my post (http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1137334&page=0#Post1137334) also:
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Mr_Indecisive99,

I've read a bit of your post. Not done yet.
(Your wife sounds like mine).

Going "Dark"/"Black"/"LRT"/"Plan B" sounds right up your alley.

Do you know of these things?

But, before you take my word on it, I'd like the others to chime in.