Hi, I was nearly a WAW and am having a hard time right now. I have decided to stay in the M, but my problem is that I had an EA with OM on-line. Never met in real life, but was ready to meet him for a PA. Called it off and staying with H. My problem is that I don't have sexual desire for my H. Not attracted to him, feel like brother-sister.
So, I guess my question is....what made you turn around? Did you have any of the same problems I am having at this time? Do you have any suggestions as to what I can do to change my emotions toward my H? He is a good amn and loves me with all his heart. I don't want to hurt him anymore than I have already done. He deserves much better than me, but I can't seem to want to have sex with him.
I was trying to find someone on this board that had similar problem as I do, but most are LBS. I see that your circumstances have kind of turn tables. I sure hope things work out for you. If you can offer any advice for me, I would appreciate it.
Last edited by sandi2; 07/19/0702:21 AM.
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