R talk - I need opinions.

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I'm putting this in it's own thread because I'm a little stumped and I would like to get lots of opinions on this.

A quick background....

My W recently started having what I think are panic/anxiety attacks. (light headed, dizzy, rapid heart rate, pounding heart, faint feeling) She has gone to the doctor and the doctor has pulled her drivers license until they figire this out. Right now they are scheduling tests in to September. I also suspect that W has started an A with an OW. However, I do not know this for sure, I only know that there is a Woman that hangs around with W a lot. (Not her Bad Friend)

When W found out yesterday that she couldn't drive, I sent her this; "Make sure you take care of yourself and let me know if you need anything. Like I’ve said before, I’m always here for you. If you need a ride to a doctors appointment or anywhere else for that matter, let me know. It’s not a problem."

She replied this morning with this; "That is a nice offer, thank you. But I think I have it all under control."

So I get am email from W this evening.........

"I'm pretty much up [censored] creek for transporting the kids back and forth after I move to _____. I am hoping like heck that once my tests results come back I will be allowed to drive. I see four options at this point, if I can't drive....

1) ask my mom if she can live with me for the weeks I have the kids and pay her to drive them to and from school

2) you pick them up in Oshawa and take them back to ______ for school, opposite on the way home (not really a do-able option, I don't think)

3) move the kids to a school near me

4) you keep the kids during the week, I have them Friday night through to Sunday night


Do you have any other options that I can't think of???"

(There is a 10-15 minute drive between Ws place and mine)


Ok this is where I need opinions.....

I want to say something like "I'm still open to resolving this situation" but I don't know if it is a good idea. In fact as I type this, I'm more certain that it is not. I know it is a bad idea to initiate R talks but I don't want W to feel that I'm pushing her away. I also wonder if this might be a test of sorts or her fishing. I'm not sure how to handle this.

Help Please!!!!!