Hi All,

Just when you thought that there would never be another update... tahhh dahhhhhh ... here I am.

WEll, nice fossil hunting trip with H 2 Sat. ago. Limited contact since then.

He is going to Italy with his friends . . .Ah well.

The exciting news is that I am focusing on me... and spending money on it! I have signed up for Spiritual Divorce coaching (through Debbie Ford website). I have been looking for a R coach a bit more suited to MLC or just in general no pressure to divorce. (I want to make that decision for me... not because someone thinks I should.)

So had my first session today. Very cool. pricey as heck but hey, I am ready go into a bit of debt if it helps me let go and grow.

I have also spent a weekend at the Options Institute in Mass. It is the center by the Kaufmans of "Happiness is a Choice". Very cool. I am hooked. I have signed up for 2 seperate week long programs.

So, yup, I am working on me (learning lots about how I have let external things/people determine my happiness) and loving it! \:\)

Trying not to focus on H and R. ... he is unhappy but plugging along... he has to find his own answers.

big hug to all!!!!

\:D brava

Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05