In one of your post you said that it seems like your W is treating OM like her H. I know exactly what you mean. My H won't admit that they are still seeing each other )OW who is his secretary), but when they spend 4th of July at his parents with her two kids I would say they are very much involved. And to make things worse neither he or his parents invited our children. Wow, they would rather have her kids over there instead of their own flesh and blood. Theo is going to get on to us for worrying about what our spouses and OP is doing, but I was just making a point that it happens to a lot of us. The WAS is so narcisstic. It's all about them. At this point I am ready to get on with my life. I was served D papers about 3 weeks ago.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon