I agree completely -- don't overwhelm yourself w/ more than you have to. Take it one day at a time; one decision at a time; one step at a time. And, yes, I agree that H should be shouldering A LOT more than it seems he is. Don't make this easy on him.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
