Kicking him off the fence

[WAW in the OC]

here is somthing out of the book I am reading. It is talkingabout a wife but just replace that with husband (yours not me)

1. I dont love you anymore

Husband,

OC here, sounds like you're getting a lot of use out of the book I gave you! Great to hear it. I found DR was helpful and this book "Stop Your divorce" helped me deal w/ the issues DR forgot to mention. It also gave specific instructions on how to feel, act and even what to say. I've definitely gotten my money's worth out of it and I hope you will too!

It has definitely given me new insight. I have started dating women(just lunches). Nothing serious just enjoying the opposite sex and realizing that there are hundreds of beautiful people out there if my sitch doesn't turn out how I prefer. I am really enjoying my free time and must admit I kind of like it. Of course dating is a personal choice everyone has to make. My wife is constantly w/ OM so I am comfortable enjoying the company of nice individuals of the opposite sex. Since she refuses to treat me w/ any respect or even civility, I can get it elsewhere.

Knowledge is the key to keeping our sanity. You are doing well by spreading the tools we LBS's need to conquer our feelings. Best of luck to you and your W.