I'm better today Grace. I hope you are doing well. H. has been home for a couple of days and we have been talking more. I finally realized that being so angry was hurting me more than anyone else, I am just more sad than anything. I'm trying however to weigh the different possibilities and I have decided that anything I choose is going to be difficult. I really don't want a divorce, but I am just going through the motions right now. I am trying to keep busy and not think too much about what happened. H. seems to be trying really hard to make things right, but it is going to take a long time. It sounds like your husband really doesn't want to leave home. I never realized so many people were going through these situations before. I also feel for everyone on this board and wish everyone was at peace and happy in their marriages. You are a sweetheart. Love, Violets
