wii, Thanks, I have accepted that this where she is right now. I've also tried to allow room for whatever grief she might feel due to this R ending.
I checked with an Att. I will call her again just to clear up a few other questions.
One completely frustrating aspect of this is W's urgency to get a job now, so she can get the D.
I guess it was too much to ask her to get a job to help with some bills, assist in buying clothes for the kids since school is starting soon, anything that would contribute to our family. Instead, the purpose of the job is to make it so she can make things harder on our family.