Thanks guys.. I'm nervous cuz I get confused easily during a heated argument.. Horrible at debate.. PLUS - I just want people to be happy with me. Hate confrontation at home. Work - it's ok.. Home - don't want to be on anyone's bad side. But, yes - he will say that no one has the right to judge him since they haven't walked in his shoes.
And.. yes, Theo - inadvertently I caused this littel meeting and he knows it... A part of me is over it and a part of me is sick about it. I just keep telling myself that his shame is not my burden to carry.