Dude, that's what i thought too, and you can lose more. Don't give her anything. I made the mistake of giving my wife an anniversary gift and it blew up in my face - she took it as me being aggressive. Of course that's not how I intended it, but that's how she took it, even though it was just some nice little things that I know she'd like.
just say those few simple words, mean it, and move forward. anything else will be pursuing and she won't like it. Believe me.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
