A self rightous, scathing type letter in which I let all my anger pour forth.
Friend, at the risk of sounding rude, you haven't been here very long. Also, at the risk of sounding negative this process takes a LOT longer than we would hope for. I'm at a year and a half, and I'm just now starting to feel like a human being.
Let me tell you, in my head I have killed W and OM a million ways. I have wished every bad thing on her that I could think of. I've ranted, raved, cussed, spat, thrown things and every other expression of anger you can think of, BUT! I've never done it toward her, and will never do it toward her.
This is one area where the rational mind controls the emotions.
Write your letters. Blow her up with a car bomb. Hope that she gets hit by a train. Hope shes gets AIDS and dies. THEN, when you are finished, destroy them.
Your boil analogy is one I use myself. You many have to lance it a number of times and drain the poison before it heals. Just remember, NEVER toward her, and NEVER around the children if you have any.
You may email me any time if you need to. My addy is in my profile.
"Be angry, but sin not." God does not expect you to not have anger. He expects you to channel it properly.
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith
