I also keep thinking that if I could take her to the place where we had our 1st honeymoon that we could work all of this out and rediscover each other as well as have a blast. It was the best time of my life and I believe of hers as well. This was like a magical place for us and we haven't been back since.
But if I know it's best to move on. And I have my grounds for divorce. No kids. Clean slate to work with. Why go back even if you could. Is the feeling of failure that great for everyone? I know i could be more compatible with alot of other people but that's not making it any easier. When everything points to reasons I should leave, what would make someone want to stay?