well, like many guys here I was neglecting my wife's needs (didn't even see them I was so selfish) and then when the fighting started because she was bored out of her mind, it got bad fast and she jumped ship!
I'm working hard on myself and I mean WORKING. I'm not just aware, I'm making it who I am. So, I've bought in to needing to change, it's just a day late and a dollar short for my wife. That's why the quote I posted hits home so much for me. I don't now why she's so convinced that someone else will do a better job of meeting her needs than me, the NEW me. But, not for me to know I guess. So, I don't worry about it.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...