I keep most of my R books under the radar so W can't say I'm forcing her in any direction. For that reason I go to the bookstore and pay cash. That way the lessons learned are taking affect long before she knows I have the book. A mistake made early in the DB process taught me that. Plus you can imagine how SSM would go over right now.
Right now I wish Sam Kinneson was still around, he would have made a great marriage counselor. Would have loved to see him handle half of the near/WAS around this web site. I would have paid to see that one. (Same Kinneson was the comedian that wore a beret and was always screaming about not doing the blatantly dumb things). Definitely not an Oprah moment.