I agree with GD and L. Something small to show H that you appreciate the things that he is doing will only encourage him to do more of the same. I know that I would love to hear my W say or show me that she appreciates my efforts. Maybe H is beginning to understand what he needs to do to fix the relationship. If he is starting to have an awakening, you want to make sure that you acknowledge the things that he is doing right so that he continues them.


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M-28
W-28
Together 10 years
Married 2 years
No children
Things started taking a turn in 01/07