I agree with fearless - stop him in his tracks if you can. It can only get worse otherwise. I tried and tried to give the guy chasing me opportunities to back off and all it did was backfire and hurt his wife,

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength