LO,
Here is a website that is associated with Dr. Dobson. In this article you will find a letter that you can adapt for your purposes. Although this letter is written from the perspective from somone who is separated I think you can definitely change a few things up and it still relay your feelings.

http://www.family.org/marriage/A000001322.cfm




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon