JR...how in the heck did you ever end up where you are now??...you know of what you speak!! I couldnt agree with you more!! A person can run but they cannot hide...if they dont fix themselves and that means being brutally honest with oneself and then urgently doing corrective action then they are only kidding themselves...they will not be happy with anyone else and their lives will be a hopeless chain and pattern of repeats and failures...sooner or later these unaddressed issues will come back to haunt and result in anxiety and unhappiness...the score always gets evened...the Almighty makes sure there is a score...there is no use in evading it...in fact, the same amount of energy avoiding the issues at hand could easily solve them...it all evens out...
Meanwhile, to walk away is the first step in avoiding the issue and the lifetime scar that divorce leaves is equal to the death of a loved one nevermind what it has done to children caught in the crossfire...just look at society today and I dont know how anyone can argue that the problem with kids today is rooted in all the broken homes...divorce is never the answer...making a good choice in the beginning and resolving yourself that marriage is for keeps is the answer...adversity is an opportunity for growth not something to be avoided!!!!!!!
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads...=5&o=31&fpart=1
