Had a great few days, the weather has been really nice today so took D3 to the park and then went round to a friends house so D3 could play in the paddling pool .
On Monday my husband started flirting via text, i could feel myself getting drawn back in and starting down that cheeseless tunnel again. I decided to text my husband and tell him that even though i enjoyed the flirtyness with him, i thought it was innaproriate considering that he had previously told his mum that it did not mean anything to him, i also said that i found it confusing and it was sending me mixed messages while i am trying to move forward. At the end of the text message i said that he could talk to me if he ever felt the need.
My husband was here earlier visiting D3, she was so excited to see him, it has been a week since she last saw him and really missed him. He was pleasant but I think he was tired from work. He had told me a while back that he had booked a long weekend off work for his birthday which is in August, so today i asked him if he would like to have D3 any extra nights that weekend. It turns out that he will not be having her at all because he has booked to go to majorca for the weekend, apparently he is going on his own because he knows a guy out there. I find it odd that he will not be spending his birthday with OW, unless he was not telling me the truth and is going with her. Anyway, i hope he has a good time, he deserves to have a break because he does work long hours. He also told me that he spoke to his Dad the other night, he has not really spoke to him since the bomb, he just said that he dad was being his usual arrogont self.
Hope everyone is ok
Nicky
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved
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