I think it is time that you send him a message to stay away from you. I also think that you should Cc your hubby a copy of the note, and send him a separate note that details what you are having to deal with.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.