Tyler, firstly, just accept that this where she is at right now. Think about it, she's just ended this incredible emotionally fulfilling R with OW, it hurts bad. She's gonna feel pain, you can't help her with that but you can respect what she must feel. It's also not a bad idea for you to check with an Att.too just to know your legal rights and obligations, you never know where this will go and it's always best to have your ducks in line just in case, I know I did and when W found out I said "I might be a loyal man but I'm not a stupid man!" One day at a time guy, it's all you can do.
