I didn't respond to his email yesterday. He then texted me today "how are you." I'm still just ignoring his emails/texts, although I feel like texting back "have husband. no texts please." And, yes, Lou, he did literally beg me to allow him to come over to my house the night his W was out of town. I told him that we are both married and want to keep it that way. I also told him that I would never cheat on my H after I've worked my a$$ off to save my M.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10