My W does not have any retirement accounts, I was the only one to contribute to a retirement plan during our M. I assume that going forward she will be thinking about contributing to her own account, but to date she has not. I am kind of hoping that the markets will tumble a bit so the value of my 401k will take a hit, but that is wishful thinking at this point. Right now I want to have as little ties to my W as possible. We have our kids and I will be paying CS but I want to leave at just that.
It is also nice to know that there is an expert in this area on the board, I might have some questions about this at a later date.
BTW, when are you changing your name to Hopeful or SmokinHot or maybe WonderfulBabe.... Just a thought...