I am trying to conclude the relationship i have now, but i have a hard time kicking some one out on the street with no money.
But yes we shouldn't control each other, and we never did before our "houseguest" wrecked our lives. I think the more my ex sees that I am trying the more he will understand. At least that is my hope.
When you're ready to commit to your marriage again, it won't be difficult to kick out the BF. Plus, unless there's a reason, he should be able to support himself, right?
I'm not sure the houseguest wrecked your lives. Perhaps he brought out some of the things that were below the surface that needed to be addressed?
I'm sure he sees that you're trying, and I'm sure he realizes that is what he should be doing, too. Maybe he just doesn't know how to show that just yet. Hang in there! :-)
Me 37; W 35; 2 dogs M 8 years; before that, dated 9 years Bomb #1: 10/13/2006 (day after my birthday) Bomb #2: 1/15/2007 I am finding strength I never thought I had
