She has not made an appointment with an IC that I know about. I really wish that she would. I'd like to think that they can help her sort some things out. This whole situation has me reeling and I don't know how to get past it. On top of this, I have not been happy at work for quite some time. Thinking about making a change there. She was supportive of this, just wants to make sure there is a plan in place. I know what you are saying about her family. I have basically told her mother to stop the pressure. She does not even talk to anyone else in her family because she doesn't like what they say about her making a mistake, needing to get help etc.... I am not going to bring up the Godparents thing to her, and I hope that they don't either.
