I also need to find out whether or not she abandoned us too. She just got up and left, made the choice as if she was single and completely independent. Oh well, not my concern anymore is it?

Instead of changing the locks, I can install a security system to the house, we don't have one, so I think I am entitled to protecting my home and reporting my new system to my home owners insurance for a discount on my policy? That way I will know for sure who goes in and who goes out. It's a bit to spend, but I can make it happen.

I just see that my W is not respecting any of my boundaries, like I am some joke to her to control and manipulate.

I am trying to compose myself some. I went out for a walk and had lunch by myself at the mall. I also hit the Discovery Store and they had a closing out sale, I got some fun toys for me and my daughter to play with - they are for her.

Last edited by ~Sol; 07/18/07 05:27 PM.
~Sol

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Single Dad, and luvin it!
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