I don't know how you cope with OW being an ongoing thing. I got rid of H's OW before I knew about DBing. I guess H must have been ready for me to 'get rid' otherwise he wouldn't have told me of the A.

My heart really goes out to you and I will keep everything crossed to wish you luck for tonight.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength