Below is an email from my wife I received today. I will fill you in a little about out situation...She is 26, I am 33 and after 3 years of marriage she left me last June. We have no children and have since sold our home, and have no reasons to talk anymore. She seems to still be angry, dispite the fact that I have been using DB advice. She actually seems to resent any changes, and I can understand to a point. I am sure she wishes I would have shown these changes before. My only contact with her has been an occasional text message to say hello, or a phone call to say the same. I have not tried to discuss "us" for probably 9 months. I have thought I should just move on and I am ready to do so, but I just feel that this anger she feels may go away if I was able to have her open up to counseling. I really feel like she doesn't even realize that. PLease read the email and give me any feedback you can....I am running out of time it seems. Thank you.
You may (or your lawyer) have gotten a letter in the mail from St. Mary's County court house stating that we have a court date of 8/13. I know your sent a response stating that you are not going to appear, but I thought I'd update you anyway. I am going to see a lawyer on the 25th to make sure I have all of this straight so that it will go through. I may have to re-file. I don't know if the court date will change or not. I just wanted you to know because your lawyer will probably be getting a second set of paperwork in the mail again. You still don't need to appear, I will make sure everything goes through.
Please do not call or text me anything that does not involve any immediate legal issues in relation to the divorce. I do not want to talk to you. I do not think we are going to be friends. Too much has gone on that I am still mad and upset over. You were a mean person to me and criticized everything I did, said, etc. Why would I discuss my new life with you? I am very happy right now. You need to be happy with you and shouldn't need me to acknowledge that you've "changed". I lost a lot more in this than you will ever understand. The only reason I am over all of those things is because I know that my life now is the life I was supposed to have. You have wonderful friends and family, I'm sure they will be there for you. You do not need to call me for anything. No more text messages or emails either please.
