I believe our S's want out so bad that common sense does not enter in the equation. My W told me that she was willing to have me pay her have of my 401k(me taking out a loan). For her to not touch the house equity until I sell it in a couple of years. That means that I have to give her after tax money now and the equity in the house later. It also gives her something to hold over my head in the future. She can have half of my 401k and half of the house equity now, it might make things tight up front but in the long run it makes the most sense.
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Who knows maybe even come out better people as a result of it, I'm betting on it.
Yoyo, we are better people for enduring what we have and growing through it. I am not betting on it because I know that we are better people. At times that is hard to see, but it is the truth.
