Think the thing about the French men is a bit of an old wives tale - don't think the French women are too understanding these days.
LO you deserve so much better. Sounds to me as tho' your H comes up with just one excuse after another. Just hope tonight is ok for you and doesn't push your H even further backwards.
Take care
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
