Can't Mr Can't Keep his D*ck in his Pants realize that he is destroying trust and intimacy in this relationship, and that you ability to really open up to him is completely shattered by this affair of his?
No, he won't let himself realize this point which I made over and over and over to him. That it's one thing to have the A, but another to throw it in my face every day. IC says that he's "self-medicating" by staying in the A. And this ok, how??? Ummm.. my understanding is that anything that you use to "self-medicate" is a barrier to relationships.
Originally Posted By: theoden
STOP trying to save you marriage. Your marriage is dead. It's a no-win situation. The only way out of this impasse is to start envisioning in you mind a happy future without him. He's not worthy of you. He's a very confused and sick man.
Yes.. the M is dead. I am understanding this point very well today. I can't do it anymore. I'm dead tired and emotionally fried living day in and day out with his adultery.
