come on now... you know your wife better than to say you hope this makes her happy. she may be operating out of anger or frustration or maybe even spite but seeing that her family is going to be permantly severed... surely cannot make her happy.
I will have to read up on your sitch... I confess I don't know the whole story. But i saw that you wrote that your w is such a sweet girl.... so I can see that you aren't bitter.... just wanted to remind you that you can speak life or death to your circumstances and it colors the way you deal them.
Stay positive JR.... keep your chin up!:)
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
