Well, she slept at female friends house last night. I know I shouldn't have, but I did drive by her boss' house to see if her car was there. Made me feel better that it was not. But, still doesn't tell me anything.
I hate that I am even in this situation. Didn't sleep well at all last night. Don't know what I can do differently to make this work. I think she appreciates that I am giving her space, but she doesn't come out and say it. Things have got much better in the last week since she dropped the Separation bomb on Monday of last week. She started to unpack in the condo, she bought "us" things, she asked to have exercise equipment moved into condo, she slept at home 6 out of 9 nights, we had a nice weekend trip (unplanned) to the beach. All positives. Not much negative except for her mood yesterday and not sleeping at home last night. But I didn't let it affect me, at least in front of her.
