oh, and I would defnitely keep contributing on the house and NOT move out. I don't know how Cali works, but in OK, whatever we got after the M, we split 50.50 period. And you know what, you deserve it no matter how much you put into the house. Getting a D was definitely not your choice and you have done a great amount to save your M, so don't let H make you feel guilty about any money issues. That's his problem.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
