My W broke it to S15 last night that mom and dad are never getting back together. My son suffers from some major depression and anxiety issues anyway. He melted down. Threw a plate at his grandmother. Rage in it's pure form.

I don't understand how a mother can put her selfishness over three other souls, especially two that she brought into this world.

I had a moment and got angry and emailed her to that fact. She said I was just making a guilt trip. And I told her that no, I was calling her on her behavior and it's impact. I came from a divorced family. I know the pain and anger that manifest. I am ready to tackle that with my children because I did everything that was possible to prevent this. She however, does not have room to say that.

H-36
W-38
Married 14yrs Together 17
2 Children (D12, S15)
9/20/05 - Seperated
4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped
4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love
"If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."