Had a 3 hour R talk initiated by H last night. Nothing new really. He won't stop the A until he sees me making changes. Next breath - yes, I'm seeing some changes and effort to change.. Huh? Doesn't want D but can't see us getting better in our M... We are great friends, etc. Same stuff just not talked about for a while. I was a mess.. H was a mess..
The big news is there is some weird sort of "intervention" planned by some of his family members tonight. Crap.. Why do people feel like they need to do stuff like that??