You ladies are great women, do not forget that. I know times are tough right now, I am going through the same emotions myself, better times are ahead of all of us. None of us know were life will take us or who will be along for the ride with us. At times I think the thoughts of the unknown are actually worse then the unknown itself. You are both great women and will be able to move on to a much better life. We cannot let the fear of moving on keep us stuck in the past hoping for something that just is not meant to be. Our old marriages are dead and that marriage meant a lot more to us then it did our S's. Maybe they will see what they left behind maybe they will not either way we are moving on and are better people for enduring what we have and learned from it.
