I wish I could give you advice 65stang. I'm in the same situation. My wife became very close to her work friend and as their closeness escalated, our relationship deteriorated. She's in complete denial about that and blames me for her getting closer. I hope everything turns out okay for you. I'm 2,500 miles away from my wife... so hope is nothing but an idea... it's not tangible for me. All I can recommend is improving yourself and realizing that you don't need someone to be happy. Good luck.
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