Yeah, thanks for the insight H. As you say, it's difficult to not think about it. The lies, broken promises, the betrayal... it all makes it difficult to shake those thoughts. Not sure the visual you gave will make me smile... but thanks for the idea. It's a hoot.

We are doing what is best for our families, the right thing, the difficult thing, the thing that involves effort and sacrifice. We will be rewarded. Whether our current spouses are with us or not, if we persevere, we will prevail.

And we can prevail, we can survive, we can be happy on our own, without our current spouses. We must never forget this.