I am getting very tired. W was all upset with me because I told her I had confided in my two best friends. To the point of refusing to speak to me. I treated her better when she told me about her A and when she decided to leave , I still was prepared to forgive and still treat her with understanding. I needed to talk with someone and now I am the bad guy because her secrets out. She either does not care or has no comprehension of what I have been through and this has realy got to me. I validated her feelings and appologised but am not happy at all right now. Now add to the mix I have been asked out by a very nice OW to which I have put her off for now , but am thinking why not ? I know why not , but its so tempting. I need to sleep now .