Hey hope & yoyo,

Hugs to both of ya, both of you are amazing woman. If I was a Mormon I would marry both of ya in a heart beat.
If it is any consolation in the book I am reading it mentions many times that even after people were divorced they ended up back together. and if your spouse told you that” I just don't love you anymore and I am not happy" (like mine did) a survey was taken and 80% of the spouses that said this and got divorced were still not happy 2 years later and said if they could do it all over again they would have worked on their marriage instead of getting divorced.
Life is not over; you are really getting a second chance. Find out who YOU are. If you were like me you were so much in love that there was no "ME", there was always "US". NOW I am finding a me. My wife has it half right. She wants us to live as "Room Mates". This is true we should have always lived as individuals but connected. As we can now see it is unhealthy for two people to live soooo dependent on each other that they THINK as we did that we can not go it alone. Yes we should be room mates but we should also be lovers.
One of the good things about our sitch is I would have never have meet such loving, caring, dedicated BUEATIFUL women like ya gals if my wife had not cheated and showed me low a woman could go. If ya EVER need to vent or spill your guts my E-mail is in my profile. Write me.

I will be thinking about ya

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know