She will come home, or I'll find it in my own mind

[Heimlich]

Atlas,

Wanted to respond, but couldn't think of anything constructive to add. GD has some excellent points.

I'll say it, because you didn't, but you're wife is behaving like an immature child. Selfish and uncaring. Only someone totally self-absorbed at the moment would have their four year old call another man daddy after 3 weeks (or whatever the short time period is).

I salute you in keeping up the DBing. Right now, as I believe Nomo, Gnomes, Nomes, er, Captain Nomo, said, you need to focus on doing good things for you that make you feel good.

The other thing, and it's early so GD may have addressed this, is to start making damn sure that you S is safe. I'm sure you know this, and I don't have any practical advice at the moment, but making sure he's OK is goal number 1 right now for you, because it isn't for your W.

Not trying to be negative, but, damn, I was pissed off for you after I read this last night. And still pissed off for you now.

Hang tight and keep the faith,

BD