Just read through your thread! Wow! You truly have been a gentleman and generous to a fault (which she doesn't deserve, IMHO), and I know your W is going to miss your money (I mean, you) when you're gone. Boy, is she in for a rude awakening when she has to budget her own spending, and not have someone to lean on. Sorry (sure you don't want anyone badmouthing your W), I am still quite astounded at her actions ... not to mention the door incident. I used to have anger issues, but your W makes me look like a cute, li'l kitten.
I think you may find that being on your own will bring you some peace and quiet (my first, very short, M was abusive, and after I left, it was like the whole planet had rolled off my shoulders, and felt so free and able to do my own thing with no-one to answer to). Sounds like you have GAL covered very nicely, and I doubt you will have any problems with meeting new people (I mean, ladies) once you are ready.
Take care!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim